Warrior of the Light

Ok, another deep post! Promise all of these are not going to be deep, I actually consider myself to be a pretty carefree, unemotional person most of the time. But I had to post some of what I consider to be "the greats." The stuff that really inspires me.

And Paulo Coelho is "one of the greats." He is a Brazilian writer who is a MUST-READ. He was recommended to me by a friend I had the joy of working with this summer at Notre Dame. My first read was Veronika Decides to Die, one of his newer books. It's not a light read, if you are looking for something to move you, I recommend it. It's about a girl who, you guessed it, decides to die. One part that touched me was that this young girl loses joy in all the little things that I find joy in, in life. Like her part time job working at the library and hanging out with friends. But Veronika finds no joy in those little things in life anymore, and decides she would be better of dead. So she tries to commit suicide. I won't spoil the rest of it in case you're intrigued, but lets just say that after Veronika decides to die, she finally finds a reason to live.

Anyway, the actual point of this post (I am getting there within the century I assure you) is that Paulo Coelho has a blog (well, I guess it's a blog) called Warrior of the Light. You can see is popularity by how many languages it's available in, around 10. It is a collection of his stories and thoughts, all of which I enjoy.

This is one of my favorite posts I would like to share, concerning happiness.

What is happiness?

This is a question that has not bothered me for a long time, precisely because I don’t know how to answer it. I am not the only one. Through all these years I have lived with all sorts of people: rich and poor, powerful and mediocre. In the eyes of all who have crossed my path – and here I include warriors and wise men, people who should have nothing to complain about - I have always found that there was something missing. Some people seem to be happy: they just do not think about it. Others make plans: “I’m going to have a husband, a home, two children, and a house in the country”. While this keeps them occupied, they are like bulls looking for the bullfighter: they don’t think, they just keep moving forward. They manage to get their car - sometimes even a Ferrari – and they think that the meaning of life lies there, so they never ask the question. Yet, despite all that, their eyes betray a sadness that they themselves are quite unaware of. I don’t know if everyone is unhappy. I do know that people are always busy: working overtime, looking after the kids, the husband, the career, the university degree, what to do tomorrow, what they need to buy, whatever it is they need to have in order not to feel inferior, and so on. Few people have ever told me: “I’m unhappy”. Most say: “I’m fine, I’ve managed to get all I ever wanted”. So then I ask: “What makes you happy?” They answer: “I have everything that a person can dream of – a family, a home, work, good health”. I ask again: “Have you ever stopped to wonder if that is all there is to life?” They answer: “Yes, that’s all there is”. I insist: “So the meaning of life is work, the family, children who grow up and leave you, a wife or husband who will become more like a friend than a true love-mate. And one day the work will come to an end. What will you do when that happens?” They answer: there is no answer. They change the subject. But there is always something hidden there: the owner of a firm who has still to close the deal he has always dreamed of, the housewife who would like to have more independence or more money, the new graduate who wonders whether he has chosen his career or has had it chosen for him, the dentist who wanted to be a singer, the singer who wanted to be a politician, the politician who wanted to be a writer, and the writer who wanted to be a peasant. In this street where I am sit writing this column and looking at the people passing by, I bet that everyone is feeling the same thing. That elegant woman who has just walked by spends her days trying to stop time, controlling the bathroom scales, because she thinks love depends on that. On the other side of the street I see a couple with two children. They live moments of intense happiness when they go out with their kids, but at the same time their subconscious is busy thinking about the job they might not get, the tragedies that might occur, how to get over them, how to protect themselves from the world. I leaf through magazines filled with famous people: everybody laughing, everybody very happy. But since this is a segment of society that I am quite familiar with, I know it is not like that: everyone is laughing or enjoying themselves at the moment that photo is taken, but at night, or in the morning, the story is always quite different. “What can I do to keep on appearing in the magazine?”, “how can I disguise not having enough money to afford all this luxury?” or “how can I manage this life of splendor to make it even more luxurious, more expressive than other people’s?”, “the actress whom I am seen with in this photo, laughing and having a great time, she could steal my part tomorrow!”, or “I wonder if my clothes are nicer than hers. Why do we smile so much if we loathe one another?” To end, I recall the words of Jorge Luis Borges: “I will not be happy any more, but that doesn’t matter, / there are many other things in this world”.

Not only are Paulo Coelho's books very good and interesting to read, he has led a very interesting life as well. For instance, as a child, his parents sent him away to a mental institution because he was a creative child. That's right, carted him off to countless shrinks all because he wanted to be a writer instead of a businessman or some such other occupation more acceptable in their eyes.

Warrior of the Light can be subscribed to via http://www.warriorofthelight.com/engl/index.html, and his books are available (as I mentioned) in virtually every language in any major bookstore. He has also taken advantage of making his literary works available as torrents.